Stephen Stevenson

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Inspire a Vision, Then Stand Back!

Inspire a Vision, Then Stand Back!

This post shares a personal anecdote to make a point about Leadership Mastery, specifically the results of leading from vision in mastery, vs. managing in excellence. We recently moved to a new house that we are remodeling and renovating. The entire project gave me an opportunity to overcome my personal bad side (controlling, micro-managing, worrying), and […]

Excellence Has Costs, Just Like Failure and Mediocrity

Excellence Has Costs, Just Like Failure and Mediocrity Excellence

Excellence differs from failure and mediocrity most obviously because many people openly and passionately aspire to it. They want the satisfaction excellence brings and the rewards it promises. Excellent people simply have richer lives, get more done, and have more fun. Aspiring to excellence is valued, encouraged and rewarded. No one really says, “I aspire […]

Excellence vs. Mastery: A Tale of Two Leaders

Excellence vs. Mastery: A Tale of Two Leaders

Imagine two successful leaders. Let’s call one leader S, and the other C. At this time, S is trapped in excellence, while C is in mastery. If excellence and mastery are like apples and oranges, these two will have very little in common. But not so fast; they’re both fruits, both grow on trees, and […]

The Dating Debate – To Google or not to Google?

The Dating Debate – To Google or not to Google? google-dating

Something just happened to me recently. After going on a Dating Blitz, a very special lady opened me up to an interesting, yet questionable practice that never really crossed my mind until she brought it up — Googling someone you’re interested in dating. Even though my life is so entwined with all things Google, I […]